Thursday, July 05, 2007

Its a wonder why most humans learn their lesson the hard way. How when they really got it smacked hard in their own faces then only do they realise that they shouldn't done what was not supposed to be done but to avoid doing it all together.

Is it really that easy for your relationship after knowing both you and your partner did a very big something that really hurts each other to the core? How everything will not end up the way it is now if only you had not started everything months back. How every single day you were being reminded of your mistakes? How most things were blamed because of you?

Forgive and forget? How effective and does it really mean that much to you? Very subjective. Forgive and forget sincerely, maybe. Probably, i will say. Provided you really forget the whole matter and not bring it up anymore. End of story. To say that you forgive and forget at the moment just to put things aside? Not safe. When things tend to cocked up between the both of you, high chances that these might come up again.

Pride and ego. In any circumstances, no matter what, never wait for the other party to say sorry first before saying your sorry. For whatever reasons you're guilty of, put your ego aside and say your sorry. Its up to the other party to say his/her sorry when they're ready.

Again, its a wonder how one will only realise that these are true when it really happens to themselves.
Get Lost @ 7/05/2007 06:14:00 PM